Tuesday, February 16, 2010

V Day Love

Valentine's Day !! A big day for emotions......especially for the most overrated emotion called love. For weeks and days people wait for this day to come down and just turn around their lives with a bullet full of something called as love. V DAY LOVE what i would like to call it.....Don't really understand what charm does this day bring to love???? One day dedicated to celebrate your emotions doesn't really seem human to me.....As if we all are being strangled inside the cages and wait for a big day to express our selves...Are we making justice to what God's grace we had being the most intelligent living creature???? Why can't we live each day like it is and celebrate life instead of celebrating occasions......

Well all this may sound a little bit philosophical and pedantic or good to write and better preserved in books, but the truth is we have been running away from our lives....a futile effort in search of what we call as happiness. Years back i never use to celebrate occasions and i use to be very happy Happy go Lucky Guy as friends use to call me. Today i have all the resources in my hand mobile, internet, laptop to connect with anyone at anytime i want too but still i believe in the magic of big occasions to turn the tide for me......So what did all these options have really done for me.....Do i feel more close to people i want to be?????? And the answer is a big "NO". Why??? Well the answer lies in our hearts itself......It is the emotions that bond us together, that makes the distances appear or disappear.....Isn't it?

People are happy as they want to be and it seems we are happy living in shackles....It seems instead of happiness, fear has taken over as the driving wheel of our lives. Fear of expressing ourselves, fear of losing.......and with all the emotions piled on everyday our lives have become burdened......But how long we will keep running away from truth that True love can never be lost neither can be confined in dates or days......Essence of life is in living freely not fearfully.

Love is most free flowing emotion and most satisfying one......just the sense of being loved brings a sweet smile to one's face....so why shackle love in in days and dates???? It is time to break free from "V Day Love" and move towards "Everyday day Love". Celebrating life is much better options and occasions come along as icing on the cake. So, it is all up to us we want to just enjoy the cherries or the full cake.

Happy Valentine's Day to All !!